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Bradley Scherger posted a condolence
Thursday, December 31, 2020
I am very sad to hear about Pat’s passing. And I send my heartfelt condolences to Joyce, Kevin and Kyle and family.
Pat was an old friend and very close friend of mine for many years. And I wanted to write this as a tribute to Pat.
I became friends with Pat at University of Saskatchewan in Saskatoon back in 1982, while taking some classes together towards our Engineering degrees. After receiving our degrees, Pat moved back to Regina and I later moved there in 1986, found myself a job and we continued our friendship. I recall going skiing with Pat and some friends at a nearby ski hill. And then in about 1988, Pat and I attended a party at Regina Beach. And at that party, Pat met his future wonderful wife Joyce. She apparently would not give him her phone number initially, but obviously Pat realized that he had found the one woman for him. Later he apparently obtained her phone number from some mutual friends and they began dating. In early 1989, I moved to Edmonton and sometime soon after that, Pat and Joyce travelled together to Edmonton to attend an event and called me to meet. And I realized they were in a serious relationship and I was very happy for them. They got married in 1991 and Pat invited me to be a groomsman at their wedding. And when I got married in Edmonton in 1995, I had Pat attend as my Best Man.
Due to Pat living in Regina and myself in Edmonton, we did not see each other a lot and did not talk often. But when we talked, Pat was always the close friend he had been for many years and it was like we had just each seen other yesterday. Pat and Joyce were always available to meet up or invite me and my family over when I visited Regina or passed through Regina.
Pat was always a positive person and gentlemen. After I heard about his diagnosis, I tried to call him about once a month and we had some good discussions. And in the couple weeks before he passed, he still took my calls even though he could only whisper and he was still positive, although concerned about his family. And he told me he loved me and I said the same to him. And he even apologized in the last call that he was hard to understand. What a great guy to be concerned about something like that in his situation!
At this point, I have to say that Pat was the Best friend that I ever had. And I will remember him and appreciate and love this great friend Pat Dudley forever. Rest in Peace Good Buddy, and I will see you again on the other side.
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Laurie-Ann Martin posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 29, 2020
Joyce I so sorry for your loss. I am thinking about you and am so sad for you and your family. Love Laurie-Ann
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Lois McChesney posted a condolence
Monday, December 28, 2020
Joyce ,
I am so sorry to learn of Pats passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Lois McChesney
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Calvin & Shelley Nelson lit a candle
Sunday, December 27, 2020
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Joyce, Kyle, Ellen and Kevin. We are sharing in your sadness as we remember Pat. Pat was a joy to know. Never heard a bad word about anyone come out of him. Even the basketball refs, ha ha. Always a pleasure to be around. We have many great sports photos of Mitchell and his team mates thanks to Pat’s talent. Those will be cherished memories thanks to Pat. We want you to know we’re with you in spirit—now and in the days and weeks ahead. Calvin and Shelley
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Leah Fichter posted a condolence
Saturday, December 26, 2020
Pat, along with Joyce and the kids, was a dear friend to myself and my family. We are blessed to have shared holidays to Mexico and Jamaica with the Dudleys. We lived a couple of houses away from them for many years, and developed a treasured friendship with them. Pat and Joyce were like a second set of parents to James, who was and still is Kevin's best friend.
Pat was a kind person, and a loving father and husband. I am very saddened to hear of Pat's passing. Joyce, Kevin and Kyle, accept my love and sincere condolences at this very difficult time.
Leah Fichter, Robyn and James
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Glenn and Kathy Deck planted a tree in memory of Patrick Dudley
Friday, December 25, 2020
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Joyce, Kevin and Kyle - We are sorry to hear of Pat's passing. We will always remember his infectious smile. Thinking of you all. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Alan Jorgensen posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Sorry for your loss, I only knew Pat a short time while at SaskTel and he was a mentor for me. His dedication to his job and the love he had for his kids and family was an inspiration. He will be truly missed.
Our prayers are with you and God bless.
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Kathy Bellamy posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Joyce, Kyle and Kevin.
So sorry to read of Pat's passing. He was such a genuinely kind soul, always ready to pitch in and help and support the teams/parents in any way. Lucky us to have his support often come from behind the camera! We have many fabulous memories because he took the time and made the effort. Pat was salt of the earth, honest, hard working and one in a million. I remember long chats with him before Balfour basketball and volleyball games and will treasure those times.
I know your memories will help carry you through these difficult days. Sending thoughts and prayers to you.
Sincerely, Kathy Bellamy
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Mike Lang uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, December 24, 2020
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Condolences to the Dudley clan. Memories to share? Pat and I ...
grew up just down the alley from each other, visited together with our Moms, built snow forts, played board games, fought with potato guns, used walkie talkies, read comics and listened to the radio, went tobogganing, signaled each other in flashlight code, ate Sids seeds and quibbled, biked to the swimming pool, loved mayhem with firecrackers, joined Cub Scouts, trekked to the Regina Book Exchange every Saturday, drank malts at the lampdog stand in the basement of the Bay, had sleepovers in my treefort, threw crabapples at the bus, biked to Sunset Amusement Park to play the pinball machines, regularly went to the movies, played the 5 cent diggers at the Exhibition, enjoyed bowling, went shooting with our .22s, mimicked Monty Python characters, went to Rider games, delivered presents for Santas Anonymous, took in many rock concerts, went group camping with our friends, played badminton at Lakeview United Church, braved icy waters rockwalking at Wascana Trails, cruised Albert St. in his cool cars, went on many photo safaris, took a road trip holiday to Cypress Hills, explored many backroads and rock pits this summer.
We were inseparable, we were as family.
Red rover, red rover ... we call Pat over.
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Sandy Mah posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Joyce, Kyle and Kevin,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. I have such good memories of Pat at all the club volleyball and high school games. He was one of the most genuine people you could meet. I always enjoyed talking and sharing a laugh with him. Our thoughts and prayer are with you at this time.
Sandy, Holly, Evan, Kyle and Nicole Mah
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Rick Wolbaum posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
I knew and worked with Pat many times over 25 years at Sasktel. A nicer and easier guy to be with you couldn’t ask for. He will be sorely missed and my deepest condolences to his family.
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Audrey Templeton-Schultz posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2020
Joyce, Kevin, and Kyle,
We are so sorry for your loss. Sending you our sincere condolences. Pat was a kind, friendly and sincere person. We always enjoyed visiting with him at the Balfour basketball games. May your memories fill your heart and lead you to a place of peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark and Audrey Schultz
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Deanna Chernick posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Joyce and family, I was saddened to read of your loss. I met Pat only a couple of times but I remember how welcoming he was to this strange woman sitting at his kitchen table working with his wife on a Sunday afternoon. I remember his wonderful smile. My prayers go out to you and your family. I’m sending you a big virtual hug.
Deanna Chernick
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Daryl and Shelley Hoffman posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Shelley and I are so saddened to learn of Pat’s death. Pat started his career at SaskTel working for me. Pat was intelligent and a quick learner. He was very pragmatic, taking a logical approach to solving system issues and developing solutions. His calm and thoughtful nature served him well.
As Pat and I moved onto different areas I always enjoyed our hallway conversations. Pat was friendly and down to earth. Joyce, you and Pat also shared the same calendar (July 20) wedding anniversary. The two of you always came to mind on that day and will continue to do so.
Joyce, Kyle and Kevin our deepest sympathy to you on this most sad time. May the promise of our Lord and Saviour bring you some comfort in this most difficult of times.
God’s blessings to your family,
Daryl and Shelley Hoffman
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Cheryl Brown posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Mrs Dudley,
My condolences to you and your family. You may not remember but my father and I met you and your husband at RGH emergency one night at the beginning of your journey. We met again shortly after the diagnosis in yet another hospital waiting room where the two of you shared his diagnosis. So it was the strangest and saddest of coincidences because my own husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Pancreatic cancer three weeks later. I have thought of you both often this past year as we fought my husband’s cancer. He passed away Nov 10th, which was five months longer than he was given so we were so grateful. In closing I just wanted to say that my family is also thinking of you and yours at this time.
Cheryl Brown
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Joyce Dudley Posted Dec 23, 2020 at 2:55 PM
Thank you so much for sending me this condolence. Of course, I remember meeting you, and I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Pancreatic cancer is such a relentless disease. My prayers are with you as well as you face your loss.God Bless...Joyce
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Sandy Nasewich posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Joyce, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Pat was an exceptionally sincere decent person who took an interest in the people he met and knew. He treated everyone with kindness and respect. He was a true gentleman who will be missed but not forgotten. Take comfort in the wonderful memories of your life together and your wonderful sons who emulate your husband.
Tom Nauta posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
I have fond memories of working with Pat at SaskTel over the years. I especially remember the good natured kidding that occurred in 2007 when the Riders met the Bombers in the Grey Cup and Pat tried in vain to convert this staunch Bomber fan over to his side. My condolences to the entire family.
Tom Nauta
Ioana H. Ligdas posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Joyce, Kyle, and Kevin,
Loved ones may leave us, but our love never does. You have the deepest condolences from us here in Chicago. I have grown up with your family a part of my life for as long as I can remember. Pat was always the kindest, so easy to talk to you. I am sorry that you all have had to go through so much at this most difficult and strange time. Please always know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, today, and always. May His Memory be Eternal! May you always think of your dear hubby and father with a smile and a twinkle in your eye. God Bless You All!
Love,
Ioana Ligdas and Family (Chicago)
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Thomas Moersch uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
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Thomas Moersch posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
Pat was a dear friend for decades. We knew each other from the Computer Science program at the U of R and through some late nights studying and working on IT projects.
Pat was always a good friend and it was very pleasant to be around him. He had a great sense of humor.
When I joined SaskTel's IT department in 1999 I was very pleasantly surprised to find out that I was to work in the same small group as Pat. Even though we eventually ended up working in different groups we always stayed friends and tried to have coffee together with our tight knit group of coworkers every day when the opportunity arose.
We celebrated together and talked about our families, our passions and our lives in general. Pat loved to talk about the projects that he was planning or working on at home and of course The Riders.
Pat even joined our little retiree's coffee get-togethers now and then when his work schedule permitted. Those events were special to us and we were hoping that Pat would become a permanent fixture of our Kaffeeklatsch once he reached retirement age.
Pat, we will miss you.
My prayers and best wishes go out to Joyce, the boys and the rest of Pat's family.
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Thomas Moersch uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
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The family of Patrick Campbell George Dudley uploaded a photo
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
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